Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Do you walk on glass - with some people?
Tuesday, February 24, 2009
Category - Relationships
Do you walk on glass…with some people?
Or is it you that makes others walk on glass?
This title may seem peculiar at first, but it will become clear.
Have you ever come home and seen your partner at the sink, with her back to you.
Not a word is said, but you know that there is going to be trouble.
It may be that it’s your husband that gets out of his car, and you know that he’s looking for an argument?
Maybe it’s your mother, who just has to look at you from a distance, and you know you’re “for it”.
You get into the office and the boss does not have to say a word, but you know it’s going to be one of those days.
You feel on all these occasions, that you are walking on glass.
Your intention is not to give them any opportunity to have them vent their anger towards you.
You can sense their look, and their demeanour tells you that nothing, but nothing, will change them.
This is called Vibrational contact.
In worldly terms it’s body language but it’s more than body language.
It is the feeling or the Vibration that you feel, not just the bodily look.
It is what we as Humans used to rely on as our only means of communication.
Before we learned to think, it was the way we could tell who was our enemy.
It was how we communicated with the opposite sex.
It was impossible to be lied to.
It exuded from our very pores.
We could sense it for miles.
It was what helped us to survive.
Then thinking came along.
We used our thoughts to produce words.
We would prepare a logical “story” for all occasions.
It took over from Vibrational Communication.
Still, there are times, like the events explained earlier, when we cannot hide how we feel.
As for others around us, they also know by our vibration exactly how we are.
It’s almost impossible to get them to be sensible, so we remain silent, hoping that they snap out of it.
We perhaps run after them, trying to anticipate their every move, just so they do not become more angry.
These are times when insanity reigns.
You know it is the “time of the month” when your wife looks at you.
It’s a look that could kill, so you say nothing, if you’re smart.
If you’re not, then you’re in for a rocky few days.
These and other times are when we have to walk on glass.
PSYCHEGNOSIS teaches that these are the times when the “illusion” is totally in control.
A person is controlled by “who they think they are”.
The only way out of being controlled by our Emotions is to realise that “we are not”our Emotions.
It’s as simple as that.
To try and not behave that way, will only strengthen the “illusion”. Let us explain how this is brought about. When we are very young, we are constantly surrounded by Emotion or Vibration from those around us.
We learned that, as we got older, how we felt is what made us “who we are”.
This connection continued and the feelings became stronger.
The more we think about these emotions, and connect them as “being who we are”, the stronger they become.
They get to a point where our connection to them is so strong, that they take us over. We MUST understand that they are not “who we are”.
It’s easy after that.
This is certain.
There are no if’s or buts about it.
It is the only way to be free.
PSYCHEGNOSIS will set you free from this torture, whether you are the perpetrator, or the Victim.
If the Victim realises that the perpetrator is not in control of what he is doing, he will not Vibrate back fear.
Fear is felt by the Perpetrator, so simply accept it as it IS.
As for the Perpetrator he will realise when these emotions appear, that they “are not who” he, or she is.
They will quickly disappear.
It’s that simple.
No effort required.
No special therapy.
It’s that simple.
Maybe you can pass this on to someone you care about. It is as it “IS”.